Michael Jackson R.I.P.

I'm still in disbelief that he is gone. He was such a big part of my life and his music helped me through a lot.I thought I'd share 2 stories




This is the first 7 minutes my favorite movie of a times. I was 5 when this came out and remember always asking my mom to rent this movie several times just to learn how he leans in the "smooth criminal" video. I remember my mom returning the movie and re-renting the movie for me. of course you remember b4 blockbuster you'd have to do that. I KNOW! I KNOW! ENOUGH WITH MJ, but so many things in my life, whether good or bad his music has always been there with me growing up. Check the links below









One last video I have a really good story. If you know me well you know my dad was strict growing up. So on Fridays my curfew was 9:00 to stay up. This video I posted was going to premiere at 9:30 of FOX and 10:00 on MTV. Two things I was obsessed with Michael Jackson and Michael Jordan. I was really upset I remembered because I wanted to see the Video really bad. My Dad hated that I loved Mr. Jackson and his music. So I started to tear up because I'd miss the "WORLD PREMIERE" of the video. My Dad saw that I was Upset and asked "why are you crying" so I told him and to my surprise as much as he hated it he let me stay up to watch it and I was blown away I remember. I would play NBA JAM on the Sega Genesis. Since I had the Dangerous CD I would time it just right and the part in the song where he says "JAM" I'd jam the ball. My heart is full of great memories. Michael Jackson was truly a sound track to my life. Check link below

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=13ZGZexsaFo

THE LIST!!!

This list has been created due the fact....well actually that's for me and my lovely co-creator of course to know

We have a 3 simple rules if YOU are to embark on this adventure with us and they go as followed>>>

1. You must wake up at whatever time we say to wake up. Those who are not up or choose to continue to sleep or take time away from the list will be left behind. NO EXCEPTIONS!!!

2. Anybody trying to heist or sabotage our list will permanently remove from any of the list's future endeavors

3. Any Complainers of the list will be asked to leave to not ruin the fun for us.

after that being said I give you


The List

-La Brea Tar Pits

-Hollywood Wax museum

-Santa Monica Pier

-Venice Beach

- Drunk Karaoke

-Universal Studios

-Disneyland

-Sea world

-San Diego Zoo

-Major Beaches

-Monterey Weekend

-Vegas Weekend

-Getty Museum

- Hollywood Adventure *details pending*

more to come........ stay tuned

Dating 101 RANTING

So I haven't wrote anything in a while, but I felt compelled to write a little blog about dating and all these made up rules, worrying about saying the wrong thing, ideas we get in our heads, and the problem with online dating. Well I'll just rant for a bit and see how much of this blog I can write.

Now the first thing I want to rant about are the "RULES" of dating and other things that go along with it. I'm a bit old fashion, so it is hard for me to follow the dos and don'ts of dating. Some are obvious, but some I question.I want to meet the people that started these rules in there heads and the people that follow them and punch them in the jeans:

1. The 3 day rule
WTF!?! are you kidding me? I understand people get busy, but to act busy is so stupid. If they were interested they'd pick up. You are not desperate and if you think if they think you are, then they aren't the person for you. If you dig someone and you have some time call them up whenever YOU feel like it. Let them know, "Hey I really had fun and really would like to do it again" I've been struggling with this one for years. I'm like who gives a shit just call. Ladies and gentlemen please just get it out of your mind and let's end this 3 day rule.

2. Mixed signals (games)
Just tell someone directly if you're not interested in seeing them again. Lying and stringing people along simply because you're too scared to tell them the truth is selfish and hurtful. If you don't want to go on another date with someone, let them down as gently -- but firmly -- as possible.

3. Expectations
Don't think about the date too much just go with the flow....start at a Starbucks if you need to and go with the flow, see where it ends up you might be surprised. I've heard women say, "if he wants a shot with me..." and they make a ridiculous list of expectations. Don't expect too much on the first date just expect getting to know the person and all the other stuff is nice but really it's about the chemistry between each other. The fancy dinners and etc will come, but after those happen...now what? Is that all that person has to offer you...their bank account? LAME!

so yeah that's it. Maybe people can give me some other ones to rant about haha

Now online dating probably makes up a lot of my dating, but that is the most reliable source for me as of now being I work 40 hours and go to school and the fact that most girls (not all) at clubs are pathetic. I believe Sex and the City can be responsible for that. Probably my one thing is trying to tell the person what your all about online kills the time you finally meet the person. You have nothing to do or say to them because you put all your cards out on the table and what there is to know about the person. Plan an event have a couple drinks and see what happens. I recently learned exposing too much and finally meeting will leave you with nothing to talk about and again the "now what?" factor comes along. Not that it's a bad thing. Give it time, but not to much to set up a meeting. However, there is the factor of meeting people from online because they are nervous which is understandable....it's online dating.

That's pretty much....How do you guys feel about this?

DON'T HUG THIS GUY!!!

ALADDIN: 10 YEARS LATER

Doogie Howser End Of Episode Blog

I swear when I saw this I wanted to watch Doogie Howser.....I might do that if I have time. The theme is just icing on the cake Doing these blogs kinda makes me feel like it.
This might be a bad segue, but I'm not someone who has my life scheduled out. It makes me feel constrained and I have no control over situations. Maybe I need order to get on the right path of what I've been doing wrong all this time. There's a point A and a Point C, but nothing ever to get past A. I've always found a way to push myself away from goals. The last couple years I've come into my own with all the experiences. Whether it be vacations, excessive clubbing, and heartbreak. I've always found ways of deterring myself from my goals and really NOW I'm starting to take care of me.

To start off,I'm signing up for a gym tomorrow and finally going to get lose that 30-40 pounds I gained after high school. I lost weight for the wrong reasons back in the day *COUGH*girls*COUGH*. I would go to the gym 7 days and week just thinking about having a girlfriend or how i would help me find love. It didn't make it any easier being a wheel all the time either When I got my heartbroken I was done caring about myself. I always felt I did something wrong, when in reality I did nothing wrong, but now that I'm older I just want to get in shape and feel good about myself. I think I put on the weight to protect myself from getting hurt by someone that I may generally like. I put in my head "she'd never want to go out with me...look at me" but forget all that I'm a totally different person now. Looking forward and not dwelling on the past, however, the past makes me more aware and cautious.

I'm tired of hearing all these people telling me, "stay single! you're better off...nothing, but trouble." But when i see them they are all in love and happy. Sure couples fight, but it's better than keeping it all in, however, there are healthier ways to discuss things. People STILL tell me stay single!?! I have never been in love or had ever had anything close to a "relationship". When people tell me stay single, but I want to experience it for myself. That's like saying in your life you want to go to Paris and See the Eiffel Tower. You see pictures how beautiful it is. You tell people you want to go, and they tell you "oh it's was awful. It was foggy most of the time and rained a lot." But I want to experience Paris. Maybe it's as good as I think it is or everybody was right. That's for me to decide


This isn't a Pity Party Blog....just sharing my feelings by writing them helps. They are kinda all over the place. I haven't really talked about this with anyone, so maybe more of mind will be exposed.

Wait!.....What?.....Laith Has A Blog!?!

Ok.....so this is my first blog on here. Maybe I should tell you the purpose of my blog or what you will see from me, but first I need you all to...DO SOME EXTREME ACTIVITIES!!!(might be a 32sec commercial b4)


I guess this video kind of represent what you will see from me. Fun, excitement, Adventure, or maybe some deep stuff who knows. With me, expect the unexpected. I'll try to do one at least once a week or maybe more, but I got to get up early for my class @ 7:30a.m. I'm looking forward to sharing with you the method to my madness.
SHOUT OUT TO CHELSEY FOR GETTING ME ON THIS! :)